Yes, I know I posted about this previously...but this subject has me so up in arms and in a tizzy that it definitely requires another rant.
END OF THE FREAKING YEAR.
Now that we've reached the end of the school year, my head is spinning once again.
Places to be, end of the year events to attend, money to donate for gifts....teacher gifts...coaches gifts, piano teacher gifts, choir teacher gifts....the endless list of gifts is unreal.
Money is flying out the window - $5 here... $10 there... no big deal... I'm made of money.
I have a tree outside in back that just grows it.
You want a gift? You got one. End of the year? Here's your gift.
It's like Oprah. YOU get a gift! YOU get a gift and YOU get a gift!
EVERYBODY GETS A GIFT!!!
I don't remember getting gifts for coaches at the end of every season of a sport. Did we DO that?
Did our parents do it behind our backs and that's why I don't remember? I don't know.
I don't think so.
But then I don't remember getting a trophy just for participating either - we didn't, right?
You got a trophy if you won the final championship game...and you held that trophy up for the team photo and you were DAMN proud.
Now everyone gets a trophy... and it's like.... "oh... yea... cool... let me add it to my collection of trophies on my shelf... with the ten other trophies I've already gotten..." ....at the ripe old age of six.
Anyway... I digress.
Back to the end of the year chaos.
Is anyone else wondering why the teachers wait until the end of the year to send home papers from September?
My kids roll in after school and empty their overflowing backpacks on the living room rug and I'm in full blown panic mode.
Suddenly I'm seeing stuff that they made in the fall... pictures they've drawn, old homework that is just now being sent home...and it's EVERYWHERE.
THAT CRAP IS EVERYWHERE.
There are certain things that just need to be thrown out. AT SCHOOL!!!
I don't need paper flashcards being sent home in a small envelope or a drawing from the second day of school.
Because it only turns into a huge ordeal here with my kids...It becomes Let's Make a Deal.
"If you throw out the paper clock you made when you were learning how to tell time(I'm still not sure they know how to tell time, btw), I will let you keep this fantastic drawing you made of Pokemon"
And really? I don't want the damn drawing of Pokemon either! Because we already have TWENTY drawings of Pokemon here. I see Pokemon EVERYWHERE.
WHAT IS POKEMON!!?!?!?!?
I just don't know.
But I don't like it. And I certainly don't want it.
Teachers - please - I BEG you.
THROW STUFF OUT AT SCHOOL. DON'T SEND IT HOME.
And please... I know you're cleaning out your classroom and getting rid of pencils, erasers, old rulers, and books from 1982... but for the love of GOD, please don't send them home with my children.
I don't need books from 1982 in my house. I don't.
And if I my kids come home with another pencil, unsharpened, sharpened, mechanical, or otherwise,
I'm going to FLIP. MY. LID.
NO MORE EFFING PENCILS.
I have three... yes THREE... pencil boxes filled with pencils and yet, when it's time to do homework... guess what? MY KIDS CAN'T FIND A PENCIL!!!
Lord have mercy.
And then there are allllllll the very very very many activities and events that are planned for the end of the school year that the parents are invited to and encouraged to attend.
Super! Let me fill in my calendar... Oh look! I'm at the school every day this week.
My mom was never at the school when I was a kid - EVER.
In fact, I was in class one day in elementary school and saw my mom walking up the sidewalk to the school. It was SUCH an anomaly to see her there, that I shot up from my seat, ran to the open window and shouted, "HEY! MOM!!!" and waved to her!
I also had to stay after class and get a lecture about why it is inappropriate to yell out the window of the school to your mom.
But the point is... she was never there.
I, on the other hand, am ALWAYS there. And I'm not bragging about this. At all.
I don't want to be there.
There is time for home. And there is time for school.
I should be home. And my kids should be at school. That's it.
I DO like going to the school occasionally... a concert here... a book reading there... an ice cream social....
But when an "author's share" is scheduled for 2:30 on a Thursday afternoon, after I've already been on a field trip earlier in the week and I know I have to be at the school on Friday as well...
Well, frankly, I'm pissed.
# 1. 2:30 is close to the end of the school day... but it is NOT the end of the work day.
So in order for all of those parents that work in an office to attend, they have to take a half day of work.
A HALF DAY!!! They have to use part of their vacation or personal time to attend an author's reading of something their child wrote and brought home three rough drafts of for you to read - so it's not like it's anything new they are sharing with you.
Are you kidding me?
Why can't we have these events at 9:00 AM ... half hour... boom, done, leave for work. Get to work a little late...work through lunch...whatever.
Nope. 2:30 it is!
#2. I have twins. Inevitably their school events are scheduled for the exact same time. Convenient.
So unless both my husband and I are able to attend(which, in most cases, at 2:30 in the afternoon...he's staying at work) ... I'm there... splitting my time between two classrooms...running back and forth like a lunatic making sure I'm sharing myself equally. Usually in a full sweat-- hearing nothing but white noise in my head.
#3. I have another child who is NOT in school. And yes, he still naps. So 2:30 in the afternoon is not only inconvenient, but it's the Holy Grail of time for me. It's quiet. It's peaceful. It's when I get the majority of my work done...and now I have to wake the little dude up and drag him to the school?!?
This one is majorly not OK.
So what's the other option? Don't go? I don't HAVE to go.
But I'm home. I work from home. How do I NOT go?
How do I disappoint my kids who see alllllll the other parents there...
and by the way...how on earth do alllll of the other parents attend every. last. event?!?!?
DO THEY NOT WORK??? I really don't get it.
Why can't some of these things be planned for ... I don't know... the evening???
I remember when I was a kid... we had concerts... chorus, band, & orchestra concerts...and we got all dressed up in our finest healthtex wear...and we went to the school at night.
The school looked different at night. It SMELLED different at night.
And the gym was decked out with risers and it was dark...with stage lighting and the cafeteria was filled with kids waiting for their turn to go on stage - playing UNO "quietly" with a group of friends.
And it was all really magical.
And everyone went to Friendly's for an ice cream cone afterwards to celebrate.
And it was awesome. Seriously.
Ahhh... memory lane and the smell of Salt Brook School cafeteria.
ANYWAY - BACK TO NOW -
Now everything is scheduled for during the day - AT THE END OF THE YEAR-- and parents at the school all have that same look on their faces like, "Oh hey... isn't this great?"(No.) and
"Didn't I just see you??" (Yes. Because we were both here for Field Day YESTERDAY.)
STOP. THE. INSANITY.
And don't even get me started on the last two days of school being half days...
It feels like I'm being cheated out of my last meal in prison.
Just let me have two full days.
I have my kids for the whole summer... and I've attended your picnics, and concerts, and field trips and shares,... I've been the recipient of papers and pencils and old books from 1982... the LEAST you can do is give me TWO FULL DAYS on the last days of school. You owe me this much.
My daughter just came to me with three binders of school things asking...
"What should I do with this?"
THROW IT OUT!!!!!
Peace, Love and RIGHT NOW